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The Italian DVD by Sony Pictures Classic Older Teen/Adult Film

* Running Time: 99 Min.* Rated: PG13

Synopsis  For most Russian orphans, the chance to be adopted is a dream come true. But six-year-old Vanya has other hopes. After discovering his mother is still alive, the abandoned boy teaches himself to read so as to learn her address from his personal files. Before a wealthy Italian couple can claim him for their own, Vanya sets off on a perilous journey to find his only remaining family. Pursued by orphanage staff and the police, the determined runaway must now face the most difficult challenges of his young life in this incredible story inspired by true events.

Cast and Crew* Stars: Yuri Itskov, Mariya Kuznetsova, Dariya Lesnikova

* Director: Andrei Kravchuk

* Producer: Andrei Zertsalov

* Genre: Drama

* Studio: Sony Classics

* Sub: English (US), French (Parisian), Spanish (Latin Am)

Adoption Harmony Review:

Dreaming of being adopted is the norm for the Russian orphans in this movie, with one exception.  A young six year old boy has an Italian family interested in him when he finds out his birth mother is still alive.  Showing the living conditions and staff, as well as the children and their ploys to survive, the Italian will, as I’ve said before, force you to see where these adopted children are coming from.  The main character in The Italian, Vanya, struggles to search for his birth mother before the Italians can take him away from all he’s ever known.   He will have to learn another language and is forced to speak to these strangers through an interpreter.  He has no idea why they would come all the way to Russia to adopt him and their motivations are not offered.  The vulnerability of Vanya and all the children in this co-ed orphanage are realistic.  The neglect and shame given to the orphans by the society only compounds their isolation.  This is all very realistically shown throughout the film.  Bring your Kleenex’s!

 If you have adopted a Russian boy, and so many of us have, then you may see a child in this film that may look like your son.  The main character so closely resembled my son that I did not keep a dry eye for most all of the movie.  The movie has English subtitles but is spoken in Russian.  I watched this one several times, and have on my keep-safe shelf.  It is another must-see and ought to be a prerequisite for pre-adopters because it shows what we all see when we go to the orphanages, which can be haunting.  In any case, it would be a prep for what is about to come and a plea for all the older kids that are never adopted.  Vanya will capture your heart and not let go.  This is a Mission Possible movie for sure! 

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 Adopted:  When Love is Not Enough DVD by Point Made Films

*Running Time: 80 minutes

*No Rating (preteen to Adult)

*Accompanied by Adopted-We Can Do Better

*Entire Series Time:  2 hours 12 minutes

 Synopsis:  About Adopted

Jen and her mother.

We’ve seen them in grocery stores, playgrounds and at our children’s schools– little Asian girls with their loving white parents. Of the 1.5 million adopted children in the United States, international adoptees are the fastest growing segment, of which most are Asian girls. While many of their stories are heartwarming and reflect our image of American compassion and generosity, the realities are much more complex. According to the Journal of the American Medical Association, adoptees have significantly more behavioral problems than non-adopted children.

Jacqui and Roma.  Adopted reveals the grit rather than the glamor of transracial adoption. First-time director Barb Lee goes deep into the intimate lives of two well-meaning families and shows us the subtle challenges they face. One family is just beginning the process of adopting a baby from China and is filled with hope and possibility. The other family’s adopted Korean daughter is now 32 years old. Prompted by her adoptive mother’s terminal illness, she tries to create the bond they never had. The results are riveting, unpredictable and telling. While the two families are at opposite ends of the journey, their stories converge to show us that love isn’t always enough.

AdoptionHarmony.com Review:

This film’s theme in the largest segment is of an adoptive mother to a Korean young lady who takes a brave stance to a closed adoptive mother when seeking her birthfamily story.  The family system they portray is shocking.  The denial of the adoptive mother that the daughter, adopted in Korea as a baby, should have any curiosity about her Korean family of origin was pathetic.  But I’ve seen it in families right here in Austin.  The daughter practically beggin her mother to open up and talk to her and validate her needs to search are unmistakablely a must see.  The courage of this young lady is inspiring and sad.  She doesn’t portray negativity of her childhood or her adoptive mom, the mother does that pretty well herself.  Watching the family dynamics of this rejection is the point of the film made by none other than, POINT MADE FILMS. The story of the second family starting a Chinese adoption is not much different than ones I’ve seen on U-Tube, although it is always entertaining to me to watch the actions and reactions during the process of adopting a child. Overall, this film needs to be in your library of must-haves.

 Accompanying this video is the companion DVD We Can Do Better.  It is partly narrated with interviews of the Korean adoptee in Adopted and a navigation through the ways in which we, as adoptive parents, can communicate with our children about their families of origin.  Some of the segments are repetitive of the Adoption movie, but are isolated into specific areas of the international adoptee’s needs to search for personal identity.  Several top adoption doctors and specialist co-star in this DVD giving their opinions on adoption issues and solutions.  This accompanying DVD could be used for any type of adoption educational seminar and is, indeed, for that purpose.  High Five from Adoption Harmony on the making of this documentary in its entirety.

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About the Owner of AdoptionHarmony.com

Karasel Kid, BS, MA Counseling, Int’l Adoption Advocate

As an educator, counselor and adoption fanatic, I advocate for all children, but I have a special place in my heart for internationl adoptive families because I ‘ve been through it. I have a son adopted in 2006 at the age of 19 months via Russian adoption from a well-known adoption agency. This was accomplished as a single mother with lots of hoops to jump through and the help of a wonderful family and group of friends and supporters. I am giving access to all my resources for other adoptive parents and post-adoptive families to advocate for more children finding forever homes in our families in USA.

Today is the day that the information stored

 in my head about my experience with

 international adoption, attachment and

 bonding, international adoption agencies

 and everything else that goes along with it

 starts pouring out. Witnessing my son

 develop, change, heal and grow healthy has

 been the biggest education and gift I could

 have ever imagined.  Be careful what you

 pray for!


I have a son adopted in 2006 at the age of

19 months via Russian adoption from a

well-known adoption agency. As with most

 adoption agencies, I asked for “as young as

 possible” and “healthy with minor

 correctable diagnoses.” He was a beautiful

 boy who I fell in love with at first sight. My

 adoption agency was excellent and was not

 my first one. My son’ referral wasn’t the

first.  But this blog is not about my son. I’ve

learned FROM my son and our

international adoption experience what

many people might really value knowing

about international adoption issues and

adoption agencies before they adopt or

after. I’ve heard some great international

 adoption stories with happy endings…only

 one had been worse than mine, until I

 opened up and start digging for answers on

 why my son acted so differently from the

 biological children around me.  In the

 adoption arena, I have found the answers I

 needed.  Along with information came the

 warmest, proudest parents of adopted

 children who were kind enough and brave

 enough to tell me their stories.  Now I know

 how to place my own adoption experience

 in the correct perspective.  My case is not

 anything extraordinary.  I just didn’t know

 that I was asking the wrong questions. 


I work and live among many adopters and

adotees from countries all over the world.

Many of us are members of FRUA. They are

 the ones who’ve helped me learn the ropes,

 but few knew of the nightmares that went

 on at home behind closed doors between a

 new mom-a single mom, and an adopted

 non-English speaking toddler, especially if

 that child is atypical, which most from

 orphanages are, at least at first.  My son was

an extreme case of “feral cat syndrome“, in

other words he had never had a primary

caregiver and had no sense of attachment at

all.  This was all learned later on out of

desperate measures to attach and parent.

When Two Souls Collide: A Mother’s Story of International Adoption

You will find our story by Karasel Kid at

AdoptionHarmony.blogspot.com.

to learn the twists and turns that happened

 with us, and much much more coming from

a friend who’s been down the road of

international adoption and come out on the

 other side with a rich and deep

 appreciation of our children, their nations,

 birthfamilies and our relationships.  


My hope is to provide a comprehensive site

 that will lead you to information about

  international adoption in general and in

 depth, and adoption agencies, as well as all

 my other resources that are helpful.

 Combining an informational hot spot that

 also has links to the actual products I have

 found useful makes my website at

 AdoptionHarmony.com a unique place to

 visit and learn and enjoy.  The new site is

 being built and added to daily.  My motto

 is…I will tell you everything that your

adoption agency won’t and more.


As I am in the process of another Russian

 adoption myself as I produce this site, you

 will find that the information spans from

 2005 to the present. My hard knocks

education is the most practical one & comes

from books as old as the seventies in study

of the Russians themselves as a culture, to

the latest adoption medical terms in

Kazakhstan, to Nepal’s government, to

Bulgaria’s natives and special needs, and to

Brazil’s grassroots movement to aid their

orphans.  

 

I post the information as it comes out and

weed through the tons of articles, books,

websites, agency info. and resources to

report what I feel will help adoptive parents

 in all stages of adoption (pre and post) to be

 educated and prepared to be proactive

 parents the most.  It’s free.

  As so many international adoption

 websites give you the general scoop, I am

 comparing prices and doing research on the

 stats for myself and sharing with you. I

 can’t even tell you how many hours I’ve

 spent viewing the international photo

 listings and special needs programs, as well

 as the Russian data bank that lists the 

children available for adoption in Russia in

 Cyrillic!  I use an online translator. That’s

the fun part. Knowing what to have handy

 in your index of adoption knowledge

 tools can expand by visiting with someone

 who’s already been down the road you

are imparting on and using the connections

 of one whom wishes you all the best. Feel

free to use me and this blog or my website

AdoptionHarmony.com in that regard. I can

 be reached at

adoptionharmony1@gmail.com.

Karasel Kid, BS, MA, LPCi, Adoptive Parent!