Korean Adoption


Sunday, April 25, 2010  WASHINGTON POST ARTICLE

By Darshak Sanghavi

 Stock Image Isolated Babies Set 2

Adopted Boy’s Return Highlights Problems in Russian Orphanages

“I no longer wish to parent this child.”

When 7-year-old Justin Hansen, whose name used to be Artyom Savelyev, was sent back to his native Russia this month with that note from his American adoptive mother, much of the ensuing criticism focused on the U.S. side of the matter. Some said that Justin’s adoptive parents were not equipped to care for an allegedly disturbed and violent child and that they had failed to seek proper professional help. Others blamed the questionable practices of some U.S. adoption agencies.

But there is no doubt that families adopting children from Russia face unique challenges. In particular, Russian orphans suffer from psychological disorders at much higher rates than do orphans in many other countries. Last year, sociologists reported in the journal Pediatrics that Russian and eastern European adoptees were three to seven times more likely to have mental problems than Chinese and Korean adoptees. Philip Cohen, one of the study’s authors, speculated to me that this might be because of high rates of fetal alcohol syndrome in former Eastern Bloc nations.

Yet at least some of the blame for the children’s problems must be placed on flawed child-rearing practices common in Russian orphanages. These facilities offer a time capsule of a medicalized approach to child-rearing that was popular in the Unites States decades ago, before the critical importance of children’s attachment to their caregivers was widely recognized and before we realized how damaging orphanages can be.

My colleague Richard Moriarty, a pediatrician and expert on international adoptions, recently traveled to an orphanage in Russia’s Pskov province, where he witnessed an odd scene. More than a dozen infants wrapped tightly in blankets were lined up in cribs, observed by staff members through a series of glass windows. The room was uncomfortably warm and eerily silent, since none of the babies bothered to make any effort at vocalization. Occasionally, Moriarty told me, the infants were taken out for walks in strollers, but even then each was positioned to face away from the person pushing him. Staff members almost never held or cuddled the babies. “They didn’t want the kids to get attached to people,” Moriarty recalled. The problem wasn’t that the children were neglected: They were kept fastidiously clean and were well groomed and well fed. The problem was that they were bereft of normal human contact.

Charles Nelson, a professor at Harvard Medical School who has studied and worked closely with Romanian orphanages for more than a decade, told me that although the caregivers he encountered there were well-meaning, they “raised kids in a way that was devoid of any affect.” And Lisa Albers, a pediatrician at Children’s Hospital Boston who studies international adoption, said that “Russian child welfare is still wedded to the medical model” — meaning that it focuses on nutrition and cleanliness, not nurturing.

Russian orphans don’t typically suffer from a deficit of medical care: If anything, physicians tend to overdiagnose them with dozens of labels, such as intestinal dysbacteriosis, pyramidal insufficiency and spastic tetraparesis, which have no meaning to my American colleagues (who, upon examining the children, often find them to be healthy).

All this would sound very familiar to observers of institutionalized children in the United States in the first half of the 20th century. Worried about the risk of infection, hospitals prohibited parents from visiting their ill children for more than one hour a week, and infants received minimal handling. In 1910, for example, homesick kids who cried too much at Massachusetts General Hospital were moved into isolation wards.

This approach wasn’t limited to hospitals; it went to the heart of beliefs about child development in the early decades of the last century. At that time, an accidental alliance — pediatricians trying to reduce infections and psychologists warning about overdependence — encouraged parents and other caregivers to treat kids just as today’s Russian orphanages do.

As Deborah Blum has written in “Love at Goon Park,” her history of psychologist Harry Harlow’s work on infant development, parenting books from the 1920s discouraged mothers from hugging children (the head of the American Psychological Association went so far as to recommend only one kiss per year). Parents magazine praised a psychologist whose books, according to Blum, foresaw “a baby farm where hundreds of infants could be taken away from their parents and raised according to scientific principles.”

But soon thereafter, things began to change. The psychoanalyst Rene Spitz produced sensationalist, disturbing movies of infants growing up in what amounted to solitary confinement in New York orphanages. Chicago pediatrician Joseph Brennemann discovered that babies sometimes died of what could only be called loneliness.

Royalty Free Stock Photo Blue Russian Dolls

In Britain, the psychologist John Bowlby published his theory of infant attachment, which argued that a strong, affectionate tie to a caregiver is essential to a child’s mental health and development. And in Wisconsin, Harlow performed a series of cruel but dramatic experiments showing that lonely baby monkeys would repeatedly return to a lifeless doll he called the “iron maiden” for affection, even when the device was rigged to stab them or hurl them away or blast them with compressed air. Children, it became clear, desperately needed parental attachments for healthy development.

Source: Courtesy of Harlow Center for Biological Psychology, University of Wisconsin

With these ideas gaining traction, Congress in 1961 created a federally funded foster-care program that shifted kids out of orphanages and into family homes. By 1965, only 4 percent of American orphans remained in institutions.

But attachment theory did not influence child welfare programs in the Soviet Union and the Eastern Bloc. And so, while Americans and western Europeans largely abandoned institutional care for orphans, Russians continued relying on it. At the time of a 1998 Human Rights Watch report, hundreds of thousands of children were committed to orphanages in Russia, while only several hundred lived in family-size foster-care settings.

Of course, many factors contribute to the plight of Russian orphans, including inadequate family-planning resources, underfunding of child welfare services and widespread alcoholism. And a culture of adoption has never taken off in Russia: Of an estimated 800,000 Russian orphans today, only about 15,000 are adopted each year, half of them by foreigners.

Child-development experts have long believed that foster care is better than orphanage care, but until recently, the data were lacking. Then in 2007, Charles Nelson, the Harvard professor working in Romania, published in Science the results of a groundbreaking study in which 136 infants were placed either in foster care or orphanages. Foster care produced significantly higher IQ scores, and the younger the child at the time of placement, the bigger the difference. “Institutional care is bad for kids,” Nelson told me. “The fact is that institutional care always does worse than family care.” (This may be one reason that adoptees from South Korea, which has a well developed foster-care system, have fewer mental disabilities than Russian adoptees.)

Washing, feeding and dressing needy children, it turns out, is the easy part. What child welfare institutions in Russia and other parts of the former Soviet Union still need help with is providing environments that nurture strong, loving attachments between children and their caregivers. As history shows, that’s a lesson that can take a long time to learn.

But recently, the glacial pace of transition to family-based care has thawed. Kemlin Furley, UNICEF’s deputy representative to Russia, sees increasing commitment from top officials to the principle that, as she said, “kids should be in families.” She points to President Dmitry Medvedev’s creation of a program that has promoted foster care in provinces such as Perm. As a result of these changes, tens of thousands of children have moved to foster care in the past few years.

Femmie Juffer, a Dutch sociologist who has reviewed studies involving hundreds of thousands of adoptees, told me that, across cultures, “pre-adoption adversity” predicts later behavior problems. Perhaps some good may yet come from young Justin Hansen’s story, if it highlights the adversity faced by many Russian orphans who have never known a family’s love.

Torryann Hansen Artem Russian Son 

Darshak Sanghavi, the chief of pediatric cardiology at the University of Massachusetts medical school, is Slate’s health-care columnist and a contributing editor at Parents.

The Italian DVD by Sony Pictures Classic Older Teen/Adult Film

* Running Time: 99 Min.* Rated: PG13

Synopsis  For most Russian orphans, the chance to be adopted is a dream come true. But six-year-old Vanya has other hopes. After discovering his mother is still alive, the abandoned boy teaches himself to read so as to learn her address from his personal files. Before a wealthy Italian couple can claim him for their own, Vanya sets off on a perilous journey to find his only remaining family. Pursued by orphanage staff and the police, the determined runaway must now face the most difficult challenges of his young life in this incredible story inspired by true events.

Cast and Crew* Stars: Yuri Itskov, Mariya Kuznetsova, Dariya Lesnikova

* Director: Andrei Kravchuk

* Producer: Andrei Zertsalov

* Genre: Drama

* Studio: Sony Classics

* Sub: English (US), French (Parisian), Spanish (Latin Am)

Adoption Harmony Review:

Dreaming of being adopted is the norm for the Russian orphans in this movie, with one exception.  A young six year old boy has an Italian family interested in him when he finds out his birth mother is still alive.  Showing the living conditions and staff, as well as the children and their ploys to survive, the Italian will, as I’ve said before, force you to see where these adopted children are coming from.  The main character in The Italian, Vanya, struggles to search for his birth mother before the Italians can take him away from all he’s ever known.   He will have to learn another language and is forced to speak to these strangers through an interpreter.  He has no idea why they would come all the way to Russia to adopt him and their motivations are not offered.  The vulnerability of Vanya and all the children in this co-ed orphanage are realistic.  The neglect and shame given to the orphans by the society only compounds their isolation.  This is all very realistically shown throughout the film.  Bring your Kleenex’s!

 If you have adopted a Russian boy, and so many of us have, then you may see a child in this film that may look like your son.  The main character so closely resembled my son that I did not keep a dry eye for most all of the movie.  The movie has English subtitles but is spoken in Russian.  I watched this one several times, and have on my keep-safe shelf.  It is another must-see and ought to be a prerequisite for pre-adopters because it shows what we all see when we go to the orphanages, which can be haunting.  In any case, it would be a prep for what is about to come and a plea for all the older kids that are never adopted.  Vanya will capture your heart and not let go.  This is a Mission Possible movie for sure! 

Order this DVD by going to www.adoptionharmony.com/movies-all

 Adopted:  When Love is Not Enough DVD by Point Made Films

*Running Time: 80 minutes

*No Rating (preteen to Adult)

*Accompanied by Adopted-We Can Do Better

*Entire Series Time:  2 hours 12 minutes

 Synopsis:  About Adopted

Jen and her mother.

We’ve seen them in grocery stores, playgrounds and at our children’s schools– little Asian girls with their loving white parents. Of the 1.5 million adopted children in the United States, international adoptees are the fastest growing segment, of which most are Asian girls. While many of their stories are heartwarming and reflect our image of American compassion and generosity, the realities are much more complex. According to the Journal of the American Medical Association, adoptees have significantly more behavioral problems than non-adopted children.

Jacqui and Roma.  Adopted reveals the grit rather than the glamor of transracial adoption. First-time director Barb Lee goes deep into the intimate lives of two well-meaning families and shows us the subtle challenges they face. One family is just beginning the process of adopting a baby from China and is filled with hope and possibility. The other family’s adopted Korean daughter is now 32 years old. Prompted by her adoptive mother’s terminal illness, she tries to create the bond they never had. The results are riveting, unpredictable and telling. While the two families are at opposite ends of the journey, their stories converge to show us that love isn’t always enough.

AdoptionHarmony.com Review:

This film’s theme in the largest segment is of an adoptive mother to a Korean young lady who takes a brave stance to a closed adoptive mother when seeking her birthfamily story.  The family system they portray is shocking.  The denial of the adoptive mother that the daughter, adopted in Korea as a baby, should have any curiosity about her Korean family of origin was pathetic.  But I’ve seen it in families right here in Austin.  The daughter practically beggin her mother to open up and talk to her and validate her needs to search are unmistakablely a must see.  The courage of this young lady is inspiring and sad.  She doesn’t portray negativity of her childhood or her adoptive mom, the mother does that pretty well herself.  Watching the family dynamics of this rejection is the point of the film made by none other than, POINT MADE FILMS. The story of the second family starting a Chinese adoption is not much different than ones I’ve seen on U-Tube, although it is always entertaining to me to watch the actions and reactions during the process of adopting a child. Overall, this film needs to be in your library of must-haves.

 Accompanying this video is the companion DVD We Can Do Better.  It is partly narrated with interviews of the Korean adoptee in Adopted and a navigation through the ways in which we, as adoptive parents, can communicate with our children about their families of origin.  Some of the segments are repetitive of the Adoption movie, but are isolated into specific areas of the international adoptee’s needs to search for personal identity.  Several top adoption doctors and specialist co-star in this DVD giving their opinions on adoption issues and solutions.  This accompanying DVD could be used for any type of adoption educational seminar and is, indeed, for that purpose.  High Five from Adoption Harmony on the making of this documentary in its entirety.

Order this film by going to PointMadeOnlineStore.com.

For many other educational and entertaining DVD’s/Movies and Books on Adoption, go to AdoptionHarmony.com’s Karasel Kidz Adopt Shoppe.

Files Ready to Go

This photo and the comments came to me today in an email from Titiana at World Links International Adoption Agency. She said, “I recently joined the technologically advanced crowd and now have a smartphone capable of taking good-enough quality pictures.  We had two dossiers ready to go to an Embassy and I decided to take a picture to show you what a complete dossier looks like. The one on the left is for an individual, and the right one is for a couple.”

Provided by World Links International Adoption Agency
 tatiana@wliaa.org

Celebrity Adoptions

‘Adoption Fever’ Among Celebrities – Good or Bad?

The controversy over Madonna’s adoption of one-year-old David Banda of Malawi has put a spotlight – and fresh scrutiny — on celebrities who adopt, especially those who take in children of different backgrounds from their own. Read Article

Celebrity Adoptions — Madonna, Angelina and More

Katherine Heigl and Josh Kelley introduce their newly adopted Korean baby girl.  Slide show of many celebrity adoptions.  Read Article

Celebrity Adoptions

Goddess Celebrity Moms:  Babies are the hottest accessories in Hollywood, and adopting seems to be the most popular way to get one. Read Article

Eastern European &

Eurasian Countries Homepage

animation earth's rotation

 Find the information and resources you need about countries that adopt out of Eastern Europe and Eurasia at AdoptionHarmony.com.

Russian Children After breakfast its everybody to the potty.    Ukraine Children Orphan girls   

Children of Bulgaria kashia and zuscha-bulgariaGeorgian Children How can you help them: http://www.itic.org.ge/stages/howcanyouhelp.htm

Latvia Children children  Moldovian Children 3 and 4 year olds

Lithuanian Children Boy Near Baltic Sea, Lithuania  Poland’s Children Children singing and dancing at the Christmas Market

Hungary’s Kids We had to say "good-bye"  Estonian Children Children of the Community

Romanian Children Orphanage 

Kazakhstan Kid’sKazakhstan 068 071_Nats_Class 

Armenian Children Orphanage             Serbia 21

    Uzbekistan Boys kids   Azerbaijan Villagers Village Kids  

                         Krygyzstan Natives 

Mongolian Children children

If you are interested in international adoption from one of these countries, find the adoption agency directory and contact information at

AdoptionHarmony.com.